Gifts for her that are risk-free - MSN Dating & Personals

By Jason Davis

For guys, gift giving can be a worrisome event in any relationship. The matter is further complicated by a new relationship where the guy doesn't want to send the wrong message, but still wants to present his girlfriend with something meaningful and personal. The first thing to remember is that December 25th does not signal a massive change in her taste. The things she loves all year are still the things she loves at the holidays, so if you've been paying attention, you should have an idea what she likes.

If you're inclined to go with jewelry, avoid rings at all cost. There's too much cultural baggage associated with them to give one without triggering some kind of reaction. She'll either be scared by what seems like an aggressive advance, or think you're The One and start planning the wedding. Neither of these scenarios will plague a man who gives his lady a necklace. Be sure to observe her jewelry so your gift matches her style. It's a poor boyfriend who gives a silver-wearing woman a gold necklace, and only someone desperate to be single again would give a woman of reserved taste something gaudy and over the top.

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